You can never tell if you are fully over an ex boyfriend or not until you see him with someone else. When this happens you are either going to brush it off and not think about it again, or you are going to be figuring out how to get him back.
If the second option describes you, then it is time that you figure out how to win your ex back, and you need to move into full force action right away. The longer he dates this other woman the less your chances are going to be to get him back.
First of all, you should try to figure out how serious your ex is with his new girl. One great way is to ask from your mutual friends about them. They are probably aware of the relationship and are able to give you some information about it.
The next part of your mission is to meet him. However, this needs planning as well. The “meeting” has to look like a coincidence. Anyway, before arranging it, you have to do something for yourself.
If you want to win a man from other woman you need to look good. So, visit hair stylist and buy some new cute clothes. Also, wear your ex boyfriends favorite perfume.
Does your guy work out at a gym? Stage a run in with him with one of your girlfriends. When you bump into him say she dragged you along, how have you been kinda stuff. Then you may want to casually mention that you have some of his things at your house, and if you don’t then buy something and act surprised to discover it isn’t his. Act casual so that it isn’t awkward.
When he gets over to your place, or when you bring it over to his you can give him the items. There are going to be two different approaches for you to take from here. For those who had a very sexual relationship, and you can feel the connection whenever you are around each other, you can go all out.
While giving the items ask him to sit down and tell him you have something you want to discuss with him. Tell that you miss him and would like to try again. At the same time take slowly your clothes off. When you are wearing only your underwear (sexy ones) make a serious move. Give your man an opportunity to remember how good your physical relationship was.
If your relationship was not that physical you should casually ask him to have a cup of coffee with you sometimes, just as friends. The answer will tell you everything.
If your ex’s answer is no, this is a clear sign that he is not interested about you anymore and you should move on. However, if the answer is yes, this is a clear sign that he still cares about you and you should continue with your efforts of getting him back.
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