Getting your ex back requires patience. No matter whether you were the one who was dumped or the other way around, these things don’t happen overnight. A good news is that there are some things and tricks that can help you to get him or her back.
The first thing that you are going to want to do is give them a little bit of space, since you don’t want to be the annoying ex. If you turn into the annoying ex they are going to be lost forever. You don’t want to ” run into them” for at least 2 weeks, and during this 2 weeks you are going to be very busy.
Make sure that you aren’t dwelling about your recent break up on sites like Facebook, because that is going to make you look very pathetic. Instead, when you change your relationship status and people say things like sorry, you should just say don’t worry about it; single and ready to mingle! Try to make light of things, because odds are he or she is going to be checking what you are up to, and you don’t want to look like you are sitting around obsessing about them.
So, what else you are going to do during that two weeks? For women, spoil yourself, get your hair done and buy some new clothes that make you feel great, and most importantly, really butter your figure up. Also, go to gym and try to loose some water weight.
A man should get some new clothes that are a little more stylish then what they usually wear, hit the gym as well, and they also may want to hit the tanning bed a couple of times, just to get a little bit of color.
When the time is ripe for bumping into your ex you contact him or her. It is better to send a text message than calling them. If they have left some stuff to your home the message could be something like this: “Hi, can you take your stuff today because I’m reorganizing my home and need some extra space.”
When finally seeing your ex, be short but warm. Little flirt is also acceptable, but don’t make it too pushy. It has been two weeks when you last time met. If your ex still have an emotional connection with you, it will show.
A clear sign they still have some feelings for you is that they want to talk with you for a little while. You can talk with them awhile, but then pretend that you need to go somewhere, or you have some things to do. Chances are that you will get a phone call or a text message from your ex during that night.
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