Yeah, we spell it a little bit differently in my part of the country too… but are you wondering why your ex girlfriend or ex wife is being such a pill these days? Do you wonder why she is being so unreasonable and hot headed and just downright mean with you since your breakup? I mean, sure you were wrong and she has some valid points but you are willing to work through things and do what is necessary to make your relationship work
Now before you go off blaming her womanly time of the month or the simple fact that she’s a woman there are a few things to think about her. These are important points that might actually help you to understand your ex better and help you to get her to come back to you if that is your goal. Yes, the first two points might be relevant but we won’t go there, OK?
Respect – The fact that you aren’t respecting your ex’s decision to end your relationship might be a sticking point for your ex. She might feel that now that she has said that it is over that you need to listen to her and respect her decision. Sure, she might not realize that you really do care about her and that it hurts you to think of your life without her but right now she is probably bound and determined to help you to get this fact through your thick skull… has she said that to you yet? Kidding!
It might help if you did respect her desire to be without you and to end the relationship by giving her a little time to see what life is going to be like without you around any more. Right now all your ex knows is that you want her back and once you back off and give her the time and space that she says that she wants she will feel a little relieved at first and then things will begin to change.
Sure, at first she will say that she is glad to be rid of you and that you finally got the message. But as the days pass her temper and her feelings are going to begin to change. She will be reminded of you by songs on the radio that remind her of happy times that you spent together. She will see a movie that you saw together. She will eat food that reminds her of you. She will begin to miss you and the bad memories will fade while the good memories will start to do their trick on her mind.
Be Cool Dude – You might be tempted to go rushing in and try to charm her or seduce her after a little time has passed but this will only drive her further away. Think back to when you first won her heart and you first started seeing each other. Rebuilding your relationship is going to be a little like that except think of trying to win her over while tap dancing in a minefield.
Rebuild your confidence and get back to being your charming self; the guy that made her laugh and smile; the guy that melted her heart and won her over way back when. If you did it before you can do it again. If you can make her angry you can make her love you again.
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