You have heard the jokes, once you are married or in a long-term relationship, sex goes out the window. I decided to put it to the test and began to interview married couples about their sex lives. Well, they say that there’s always some truth to a joke and so it is in this case as well.
I talked to men and women with all types of issues in this area. Men who can not get their wives to have enough sex, women who feel such as they aren’t getting enough affection, couples who are reduced to being nothing more than friends and roommates raising children together, as well as couples who have issues that they just can not seem to bring up in conversation with one another.
Well we are not the people we were when we were dating, are we? We have more demanding jobs, mortgages, children, car payments, planning for the future, managing finances and lets face it, were exhausted! Sometimes it feels such as everything is fine the way it is and some day it will get better. But what if it could be better right now?
My philosophy is this; we are all going to die anyway, so why not live this life full out? So if you decided to live your life full out in every area, what would that look such as in terms of your sex life?
Stop for a moment and remember the person you used to be when you were dating or when you first began seeing your spouse. Were you sexier? More attentive? More eager to please? Was it more fun? More exciting? More pleasurable, titillating? Of course it was! So what has changed? Sure your life has changed; your body may have changed, your circumstances etc., but what happened to the sexier you?
Through my research I have concluded that most people have just simply forgotten how much fun they used to have in the bedroom. They have succumbed to the societal model of what to expect from their sex life in a long-term relationship. But do you need to settle for a humdrum sex life just because you have been with the same person for a while? Absolutely not! So what can you do?
First, remember who you used to be. Remember what it was such as to look forward to seeing the person you loved and how much you searched forward to playful sex and erotica. The only thing that stands between you and having that again is to simply go back to being that person! It is as simple as that. Since most people seem to just fall asleep in this area, they have not even realized that they lost the person they used to be!
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