Question by Interior Despisor: How do men like this grow up to believe this behavior is acceptable?
I am sure there are female equivalents, but I am referring to the upbringing and mentality of men who act like this:
Men who are married, and automatically assume all women want them, and are only to be spoken to in sexual way, even at work.
Men who grab their private parts in front of women to indicate being attracted to them.
Men who scream a woman down when she ignores this behavior and grow irate at the fact that she does not find this acceptable.
Women, have you ever dealt with men who act like this?
Best answer:
Answer by Wee Willie
There are many men who are very self centered and raised to be this way. They think that all women would want to be with them. Case in point: Indian men.
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To answer your question:
The bottom line is that politeness or gentlemanly behavior is not necessary for survival, therefore natural selection does not reinforce such behavior. There is no real penalty for acting the way you describe, so there will always be all kinds of jerks along with nice people on Earth.
your question makes me laugh,you know why? because women don’t go for single men,they go for married men.
Those men are alcoholics/on drugs, construction workers, ay-holes. Its best to just ignore them as there goal is to demean women and or to be seen.
Bad parenting produces bad kids who grow into bad adults.
That rarely if ever happens
Any man who thinks that’s OK is an idiot. I’ve never known one, but he must have some very serious issues. I’d avoid like the plague, and maybe even consult the law.
Yes, I have dealt with men like this. Quite a few. They give regular, nice men a horrible reputation.
Usually, these men have been raised to believe that they are special, and better than everyone else, or they feel inadequate, and need to convince themselves that they are sexually powerful by acting in this way.
If you encounter men like this, no not encourage them in any way. Ignore them, or tell them to stop it. If they don’t, go to your boss (if it’s someone you work with) or go to the police. If you let it go on, the behaviour will be harder to stop.
Same goes for men who are in this position. I’ve actually met a few women who behave like this towards men. People treat it like a joke, as they can’t imagine a man recieving sexual attention which is unwanted, but the fact of the matter is, men can also be sexually abused in this manner, and it happens often. Don’t feel like you can’t report it because she is a woman and you are a man. Your claims of sexual harassment should be taken just as seriously as those of a woman.